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50 graphs to make

THINGS TO MAKE A GRAPH ABOUT 

Graph-making idea # 74

What should I make a graph about?

You can make a graph of anything. Why is it useful? Because it’s a really different way of looking at aspects of your life, in a way that you don’t normally do. It may seem wonky, but it can be a refreshing perspective on a complicated, and emotional, topic.

Making a graph makes you to think about the things you value. When you live according to your values, you are more at peace, centered. But what are your values? They are the things that are important to you. In the sexual realm they may be things like: feeling loved, being in touch with your body, expressing your feelings, being in control, being out of control, releasing tension, showing care. While you are making a graph, think about what you do during sex, and what you want out of sex. Ideally, these are the same things! 

A graph can be like a timeline of activities, where more cubes means more time spent on that activity. Or it can be more like a bar graph, where you are comparing how much you value certain things. Your graph can be anyway you want it, as long as it’s meaningful to you.

You can make a graph online on the graph-making tool or you can order supplies to make your graph by hand for a more tactile experience. Here are some ideas for things you might want to make a graph about:

Fifty Graph Ideas

  1. Your favorite sexual activities – rank them!
  2. Things that turn you off
  3. A long, leisurely sexual experience
  4. A quickie
  5. How you like to be stimulated
  6. Your masturbation routine
  7. An experience you didn’t like that much
  8. A fantasy you might like to try
  9. A fantasy you don’t want to try
  10. An experience where you just receive pleasure
  11. An experience where you just give pleasure
  12. Aspects of your sexual self
  13. A good sexual memory
  14. How your sex life has changed over time
  15. Categories of sexual partners you’ve had
  16. Fluctuations in your level of desire
  17. A typical sexual “flow” 
  18. A sexual experience you regret
  19. The last time you had sex
  20. How to make you come
  21. Morning sex
  22. How you give oral – your technique
  23. Your sexual skills
  24. Your first sexual experience – what happened?
  25. First time with a new partner
  26. The build-up to sex over the course of a day
  27. Things that get you in the mood
  28. How you like to be wooed
  29. Your sensual self-care routine
  30. Your after care requirements
  31. What is important to you about sex
  32. What is important to you about your sexuality
  33. An aspect of your sexual history
  34. Your partner’s best technique
  35. Where your mind goes during sex
  36. Your erogenous zones
  37. Your partner’s favorite sexual flow
  38. What makes you feel loved
  39. Places you’ve had sex
  40. A role play scenario
  41. How you like to be touched
  42. How you like to be kissed
  43. Your lovers, ranked
  44. Your sexual foreplay
  45. Your flirting technique
  46. What adds to your enjoyment
  47. What is kink to you
  48. What you plan to do tonight
  49. What you want your partner to do to you
  50. What you want to do to your partner
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