

This is a situation that has gotten my attention, so I have been studying it. I feel I should have been able to stop the sex I didn't want from happening with another conversation, but somehow in the heat of the moment, I froze and checked out, sort of passively hoping to salvage the situation and enjoy myself. But the boundary violation felt so shitty, it was unsalvagable. So why didn't I speak up and remind him I didn't want to go there? What prevented me from holding a boundary that was important to me?
Duration: 120+ minutes